Vanessa Cole, Dorothy Abraham's eldest grand-daughter and grand child
"She was always there when I needed her. She was the one I always felt safe with.
"She did sing to me and tell me I would get my rewards in heaven.
"When I stayed over we would have hot milk and biscuits before I went to bed and I would have things I was not allowed at home.
"And the funny thing I remember was brown paper bags for her hair and her weights fags.
"When we used to do the garden, she would tell me what she wanted done and I would do it for her.
"I miss her loads - and grandad too."
Vanessa is Jill Mary Tilbury's eldest child (Jill in turn is Dorothy's eldest daughter).